Client Story: Stepping Into Excessive Overflow in Your Business

I had a client who was making multiple six figures in her business.

From the outside looking in, everything looked good. Her courses were selling for multiple thousands of dollars, she had a loving partner, etc. 

However, when this client and I got on calls, my client would hint at an underlying feeling of disconnect that seeped into her finances, relationships, and work/life balance.

For her, something just felt off (plus she had stopped expanding in her business at the rate she would have liked), so she knew something had to change.

So together we proceeded into her transformation.

We started with money: often during calls, I would help my client identify subtle, hidden places where scarcity still crept into her interactions with money.

For example, my client would comment on overpriced items in the store. While she would still purchase the item, she had a resistance against spending, which became obvious with her comments.

Complaining about the $15 drink while still buying it may seem like a positive thing (since you still allowed money to flow and spent it), but when doing it from the wrong energy, you may unintentionally reinforce scarcity, even when you are already making multiple 6 figures.

Your relationship to money is not a one-time fix just so that you can reach a goal. It is a relationship to maintain, even in the smallest of moments. It is how you feel when someone asks you for something, when it is time to pay for the thing, when the in-ground pool costs more than expected…

It is these small interactions that point towards what level of abundance you can carry comfortably. Oftentimes, you have not expanded to your desired income level, because a part of you still acts/feels/thinks like a version of you that it has outgrown.

A part of the work I do with my clients is helping them learn how to identify and move outdated frequencies around money (this goes beyond mindset and limiting beliefs).

Embodiment includes your everyday interactions with money. Some people leave the hood financially, but not mentally (which becomes a setup for financial oscillation, settling, or collapse).

The next thing I worked on with my client was her nervous system.

This client struggled with a form of high-functioning anxiety, so while she was able to build her business to multiple six figures, maintain motivation, and a sense of discipline because she had no one else to lean on, often she repressed anything negative as ‘she did not have the time’ or in the name of  ‘positive thinking’ or she would just disappear until she felt better (which was not sustainable).

This also, without her knowing, was a part of the reason she was seeking a therapist for symptoms like: 

• Feeling burnt out or numb around her business, she felt like she was just moving through the motions.
• Although successful, she was still feeling capped under her desired level of income (which manifested as a feeling of stuckness and resentment for her business and clients).
• Waking up at 3 am because her body never truly rested, feeling those overwhelming emotions she thought she had positived away.

These sorts of symptoms happen when we learn to build our business within masculine systems that do not honor the circular nature of the feminine. This is what happens when we have learned to focus on mindset while disconnecting from our body and nervous system, so much so that anxiety/exhaustion becomes a whisper, until it becomes too loud for us to exist and build a business while carrying it. 

P.S. Don’t wait until this moment to hire someone like me. The key is to stay balanced, not get balanced.